A true leadership quality is to love people who work for you. In today’s world, your employees will be more than happy if treated with love and affection. At times, love is more powerful than a fat pay-slip that fails to check attrition.
If you believe in ‘true love’, you aren’t alone. We have all had our first ‘love at first sight’. Why don’t we confess?
You often remember her. How she smiled. How magical her eyes were. How mesmerising. How stretching was the span between the two ‘hi’s, you with great courage, used to wish her with. No?
Circumstances have changed. She passed by, just like a sweet dream. You had almost confessed! She understood. But she never reciprocated. You felt the ‘true love’. Were you wrong?
Psychologists, counsellors, friends (and even your parents if they unfortunately came to know of it) would have termed the ‘incident’ as ‘infatuation’, ‘crush’ or at best, a ‘no event’. But for you it was your first love, a true love.
Should you too forget it? Or is it worse to keep remembering it? Is it a nightmare for you? Does it disturb you still?
At Hashinglife, we, in fact, feel proud of you.
At an age when we start to un-shell ourselves onto this world, it’s difficult to trust people around. You trusted her. You loved her. Your love was unconditional. You are a giver. A leader, when others lacked courage to come forward and propose their feelings.
First love is a leadership virtue. Draw inspiration from your first unreciprocated love. There’s a hidden lesson: A true leadership quality is to love people who work for you. In today’s world, your employees will be more than happy if treated with love and affection. At times, love is more powerful than a fat pay-slip that fails to check attrition. Only a once-true-lover can lead a team ahead.
Coming back to your first love…
So life will give you back happiness in return. Rejoice your first love.
Love is not a game of cards. You can’t ‘act’ it all along. It’s human. May be, it was not reciprocal. But it did exist. Humanity is not all about chemical reactions in us. It’s love, true love. Even if cherished in bosoms with accurate secrecy. Most team-leaders have such secrets concealed within. How about you boss!